05 November, 2009

Eleven proven ways to get better with everyone..


1. Before you say anything to anyone, ask yourself three things.
i) Is it true ii) Is it kind iii) Is it necessary.

2. Make promises sparingly and keep them faithfully.


3. Never miss the opportunity to compliment or say something encouraging to someone.


4. Refuse to talk negatively about others; doesn't gossip and don't listen in gossips.


5. Have a forgiving view of people. Believe that most of the people are doing the best they can.

6. Keep an open mind. Discuss but don't argue.( It is possible to disagree without being disagreeable.)

7. Forget about counting 10. Count 1000 before doing or saying anything that could make matter worst.

8. Let your virtues speak for themselves.

9. If someone criticizes you, see if there is any 'TRUTH' to what they are saying; if so make changes. If there is no truth to the criticism, ignore it and live so that no one will believe the negative marks.

10. Cultivate your sense of humor; Laughter is the shortest distance between two people.

11. Don't seek so much to be consoled, as to console; don't seek to be understood, as to understand; don't seek so much to be loved, as to love.

'PRAY
THAT ALL OF YOU WILL KEEP THESE POINTS IN THE MIND AND THE PRINCIPLES BEHIND THEM SO THAT WE CAN IMPROVE OUR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH OTHERS..'
..WHERE EVER WE ARE..'


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